While a partner with a habit of cheating or emotional abuse is certainly a possibility, keep in mind that an absent parent or even a problematic friend could be the root cause. Maybe (and very unfortunately) he's the kind of person that lets people walk all over him, so he's had a revolving door of troubling relationships.3. In the early stages of the relationship, before you're even really aware of his trust issues, he might find it tough to be in a relationship because he likes you a lot and is afraid to invest in a relationship he assumes is just going to hurt him.It might take some time and slow progress, but he'll likely come around.If communication is a serious issue for you, though, it's certainly worth speaking about it with him and exploring other options.5.
If the guy is determined to make her supposed trip happen regardless of the expenses, he sends the money again and again.
In the money keep coming, the "lady" will continue to experience difficulties.
Since a lot of letters need to be answered, the scammer usually does not have the ability to answer all of them individually.
Therefore a standard set of romantic letters exists, and the scammer typically uses these pre-written letters to correspond with all potential victims.
If he's acting irrationally, it certainly isn't your fault, but take into consideration that (within reason) it isn't entirely his fault either.
Understanding his side of the situation (and why he's doing things that could initially be perceived as hurtful) will be very helpful moving forward. Those past relationships aren't necessarily romantic. Someone with trust issues might not have a big, flashing horrible relationship to point at.
Those supposed requirements usually include proof of financial independence and requirement to pay off all loans that "she" has in her name.
And so " she" will reluctantly ask for financial help again.
You'll have to use your gut here and determine when, but at a certain point, if he still can't trust you, you both need to take a long look at the relationship.8. As tough as it might be to remember in the moment, the baggage people bring into relationships go beyond each of you as individuals. But at the same time, remember that just because he's got some deep-seated hang-ups, that's also not a free pass.